Why Are We Settling for Survival?

Jenny Feywood

Every moon cycle, I set aside time for shadow work and intention-setting. For the Corn Moon of September, I chose nourishment. As I reflected on how I do—or don’t—nourish my body, mind, and soul, I found myself in awe of humanity’s resilience. We can treat ourselves so poorly, and still, somehow, survive.

Several years ago, that was me: surviving, not living. I slept little, ate mostly junk food, avoided movement, numbed myself with endless scrolling, and ignored my spirit. I wasn’t miserable, but I wasn’t fulfilled either. Life felt hollow. Deep down, I knew meaning must exist, but I had no idea how to find it. Raised without religion—and turned off by the few negative encounters I’d had with religious people—I didn’t know where to begin.

That changed a couple of years ago when my sister, Liz, introduced me to BearBridge Academy of Witchcraft and Psychic Development. Transformation rarely happens overnight, and this was no exception. I started by taking classes. For the first time, I could ask questions without being condemned as a heretic or dismissed for thinking differently. I embraced the craft. Nourishing my mind helped me step away from the constant noise of social media. Reconnecting with spirit opened me to my psychic abilities, which I had long ignored. I began to explore my spirituality in earnest.

As I nourished my spirit, I realized my body is a divine gift—one that deserves care. Now I nourish it with rest, with (mostly) wholesome foods, and with movement. My life shifted: I went from existing to thriving.

Today, I am connected to the divine. I speak with spirits daily. I use my psychic abilities and the craft to enrich my life. I learn something new every day and revel in the discovery. I move my body with joy and gratitude. I feel balanced. I am whole.

I don’t claim enlightenment—remember, this story started with shadow work. I still face struggles and hard days, but I meet them with strength, because my faith sustains me.

So I’ll ask you this: if you are not thriving, why are you settling for mere survival?

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